@arachnidsgrip can’t have shit in Detroit
If you @ someone within a DM on Mastodon, that person will see that DM.
That's why they're not technically called DMs, the official name is "Private mentions".
If you need to refer to an account in a DM but don't want them to see the DM, try replacing the @ marks in their address with the word "AT". This will break the address and prevent them seeing the DM that mentions it.
For example, to mention my address without me knowing, you could write AT FediTips AT social.growyourown.services
i guess they were like "well theyre not going to care about how artifacted the table is theyre going to look at the blowjob" but i can focus on two things at once (nsfw image)
i now want to get into actual lol esports because the most thrilling part of these novels is the games. the pairing is kind of meh to me
i keep trying to come up with a pun / portmanteau for my they/them therapist but nothing works
:^)