"hey let's have a small birthday dinner with your sister at 530 :)"
"ok sure"

6 hours later there's now gonna be TEN GUESTS OR MORE, only 3 of whom are here, and it's 7 and we haven't started eating yet

i have been in Emergency Social Mode for the past 4 hours and I'm going to run out of juice before this thing even starts and it keeps expanding and AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH