once i mentioned transmisogyny to a friend and he was like Transmisogyny doesn't exist

and i was like ???

we had an argument about it and i cited like. hatecrimes against trans women etc etc and his counterarguments were
1. more cis women are killed every year (?????????)
2. they mostly get killed because they're sex workers (????????????????????????)

like how do you argue with A Trans Man who just blatantly is unable to understand how transphobia works