who remembers when i partnered with cis people for a project talking about how covid has affected the trans community, and i interviewed my friends for hours and edited carefuly and found articles and then the cis people provided like two slides with the definition of being trans and one picture that said "trans men are men" and "trans people are people" and i told them "ok can you at least find a picture that says trans women are women" and they actually said "that is too hard to find"