jesus christ girl, there's never any absolute certainty you can have in advance, there isn't a *test*
if it seems appealing just *try* a new name out w friends and see how you like people calling you "she"
"well, she couldn't be saying this to me"
maybe i am!
would you like to be a magical girl? tifa? buffy? utena? sarah connor? some cool girl you saw out walking about with the coolest look that you were attracted to in a way that wasn't (just) sexual attraction?
(no-one in particular except several people i have high hopes for figuring their shit out)
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spinning my wheels because its not like you can just *tell* someone this directly
"you can't forcibly crack an egg, too early and it just hurts the chick"
(attrib. me)
i don't normally talk about this stuff because, honestly, being trans isn't even in the top 10most interesting things about me, but its coming up on 6yrs hrt so I'm reflecting on things